The Eyelids of Texas are Closed on the Topic of Sex and Teens

I found this commentary titled "Texas Kids' Sex Ed Programs Shouldn't End at 'Don't'" in The Dallas Morning News on-line. It was written by columnist Jacquielynn Floyd on February sixteenth of this year. It seems to me that Floyd is speaking out to those who have children in school, or know children in school, who are concerned with the rising number of teen pregnancies and STD’s in Texas. Floyd’s argument is that the sex-education policies and programs that Texas has in place at schools are not working. She claims it is because they promote “abstinence only” and do not teach the teens about safe sex. Floyd makes bold statements against Texans and their inability to properly deal with teenagers and their sexual activities: “Can Texans actually believe that our sex-education policies are working? I guess, if they're still buying into the notion that an hour or so of demonstrably absurd sex-is-a-sin-and-condoms- don't-work moralizing is all the classroom instruction our kids need.” I believe she is on the right track, since Texas is officially ranked to be the state with the third highest birthrate among teens. Floyd’s spitfire talk and usage of hard facts from other sources gives her an air of credibility. By bringing in the public health expert, Janet Realini, into her argument she further solidifies her cry for a much needed change in the current sexual education programs. Realini states, “’We all want to promote abstinence, but the 'don't do it' message can be delivered in a multitude of ways.’”
I feel that the topic of sexual education for our youths is another topic that many Texans just do not want to address. Teens are going to have sex. There is no reason to apply religion, marriage, or “abstinence only” to such an “issue.” Why? Because sex is not an issue. People have sex. Teenagers have sex. Maybe not all teenagers have sex, but many of them do. It should not be about preventing teens from having sex. We should be teaching our youth to do it safely. It is absolutely ridiculous that we have programs that teach our youth not to have any sex, and leave them with no guidance as to how to have sex safely! How archaic are we? Total abstinence has never been shown to work efficiently. This, to me, is right up there with the seriousness of abortion. Abortion is not a “sin,” it is a need. If it is not met then women will find other ways to abort an unwanted pregnancy, even at the cost of their own life. And that is what we are talking about with both of these topics: the lives of people. Whether the lives are changed by an unexpected pregnancy or by an STD, these things need to be handled with maturity and progressive ideas that allow room for change, understanding and forgiveness. Abstinence, like being an anti-abortionist, does not function or contain these essential aspects of humanity in its heart. As a state, we must learn to evolve or we will be left in the "dust" of every other state, country, world, dimension and, well, you name it.